Soulpreneur Reflections

The Disconnect

I was working with a group last week and the conversation came round to the number of times we move into “fix it mode”. Most of the time, what the other person wants is to be listened to; to have a space to think out loud, and to find their own solutions, not to be given a solution. Many of the group said that they “didn’t have Read More …

A Life in Balance

What is this life if, full of care, we have no time to stand and stare. WH Davies There is an old Native American word, koyaanisqatsi which translates as ‘life out of balance’. Obviously, our awareness of the lack of balance in our lives is not just a modern day phenomenon! “Koyaanis”– means “corrupted” or “chaotic”, and “qatsi” means “life” so literally koyaanisqatsi means a “chaotic life”.   Read More …

When is your time to bloom?

In many parts of Japan, the cherry blossoms bloom through winter and into spring. In my part of the world in January, the snowdrops and crocuses know it’s time to bloom, in February it’s the daffodil’s turn, and March brings the tulips. There are a number of environmental factors that influence exactly when the blooming will take place each year – temperature, rain, frost and snow – Read More …

What are you creating?

What stories do you tell yourself that creates the life you live… the thoughts that go round and round in your head? Your thoughts create your reality You may not be able to change situations and circumstances, but you can change how you think about them. When you change your thoughts, you change your life. Think about the things you complain about. This will give you a Read More …

Is your self-talk preventing your success?

   Do you know how much time you spend talking to yourself? And more importantly are you aware of the quality of the conversations you have with yourself?   Self-talk is something we do naturally during our waking hours. All day long, most people have a running dialogue with themselves.   If you stop and listen to these conversations you may wonder how you achieve anything at Read More …

Ever Changing Light

One morning recently as I drove through my local village early, the streetlights switched off. The sensors perceived that there was enough natural daylight to illuminate the way and they were no longer needed to show travellers the way.   This got me thinking about light as a metaphor for the work I do in coaching and NLP. Through coaching and NLP you learn to shine a Read More …